So what I'd like is some form of controller which can be controlled by computer (pref wireless) so I can say the equivalent of 'dvd fast-forward'. Of course such a device must also be accessable from a real remote as well (so a typical IR blaster may not be adequate).
Plus points if the state can be reported on ("dvd is playing", "tv is on")
If this sounds a little like home automation, I guess it is
Any ideas how my dream world can come closer to reality?